just had a big fight with my mum . she being a bitch , sry to say this but this time she's fucking unreasonable . my nephew fell and she wanted my help yet shout in the most irritating way like as if it's my fault . obviously i get pissed , yet she still fight for her rights . since she fight back then i fight , both verbally . then when i so called win in her in the verbal fight then she got nasty and retaliate bck by hitting me . sucha pain in the ass , you dont have to use violence to prove that you won , more importantly family members . i unstnde that people , in general uses violence to have a say in their life or way , but nt on your own family members . it's just like you're the king yet you're destroying your own capital . if my family practices violence at our own crib what will happen when we're not family members ? we kill and shed ? get what i mean ?
so.....PARENTS dont be sure that your child is learning all their bad stuff frm their peers , cus if you were to sit down and think WISELY , you might be just as responsible as for their loss . im not trying to imply who's will be a better parent instead im trying to say is that both parents and children have equal temptations to do wrong acts in their life , teens like us obviously are the more naive ones but ... parents is just as naive once bfore isnt it ? parents who uses violence often are unwise people , sry to say that . but why ?
E.g like if you were to always slap your child for reasons like they did not throw their rubbish properly , when they see someone else doing the same thing , they can eventually go up to the person and slap whoever the person is .
this is a lose-lose situation , first people will be thinking how you treat your child , VIOLENCE ? on your point of view you will be thinking yes the person might be wrong but my child uses violence and that's even wrong . see ?
who's responsible for it now ? if i use violence on another person yet my family does not practice violence at home , who will people blame ? the child or their peers isnt it ? seeeeeeeeeeeeeeee now look who's the smarter one ? the child or the parent ?
people dont you agree ? nahh no matter what i still love my mum , she's unreasonable , definitely is ! but still she's my mum .
x0x0 to mummy (:
